SoaringWings Ministries
The Eighteen Inch Deficit
Sheep or Goat? Which one are you?...
(This excerpt is taken from my soon to be released book entitled "The Death Grip Syndrome."

Jesus said, "Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." (John 8:32)

I was a small boy tagging along behind my mother through a large Chicago department store.
My tiny eyes were opened to capacity as they darted from place to place attempting to take
in this new world of shapes, lights and colors. We passed through aisle after amazing aisle.
Shelves were lined with an assortment of strange and beautiful objects. Moms arms were
filled with the spoils of her latest shopping conquest. She couldn't hold my hand, so I clung
tightly to the hem of her skirt as we went from floor to floor slipping in and out of aisles in a
relentless search for that "real bargain".

My toddler size attention span was reaching its limits when suddenly something wonderful
happened. Our safari through the merchandise jungle led us into a place of magic. I never
thought such a world existed! TOY LAND!

"Mommy!" I cried in excitement. ";l-o-o-o-k-k-k!!! My heart began to pound faster and faster!
"Mahh-mee!!!" There was still no response. She had long ago entered into a feeding
frenzy somewhere back in the lingerie department, and my attempts at attracting her
attention were lost in the foray. Gosh! Couldn't she see all the neat stuff?! Miles and miles
of...TOYS!

I released my grip on her skirt for just a moment and tried to get a closer look. It was all too
wonderful! I mean after all, we're talking about millions of balls, tanks, guns, toy solders and
an assortment of curious looking gadgets which I had never seen before. "Had Santa come
and no one told me?!"  I certainly hoped not!

Suddenly, the throng of wild-eyed bargain hunters closed in around me, and I was whisked
away. Looking over one shoulder, I saw Toy Land quickly vanish behind the press. I
struggled to glance over my other shoulder only to catch the fading glimmer of red from my
mothers skirt.

I hopelessly tried to push my way in her direction, but I was no match for the blitz of
shoppers that was dragging me away. The time for panic had officially arrived. I waved my
puny arms and shouted as loud as I could, but my cries of distress were shrouded in the
hustle and bustle of a mega department store sale. I was desperately trying to push my way
through the forest of legs, bobbing and weaving, as I dodged swinging pocket books.

I was working my way around a lady with a posterior roughly the size of Rhode Island, when
the crowd suddenly thinned. I could finally catch a faint glimpse of my mothers familiar red
skirt moving further and further away. I strained with my last ounce of strength, until I found
myself within grasp. Then leaping with hand extended, I caught a hand full of fabric in a
death grip and held on tightly.

Once again I found myself being carried past columns of shinning merchandise and colorful
signs that shouted, "Buy me!" But soon the excitement began to give way to
exhaustion, and I was ready to call it a day. I just wanted to go home, crawl in my cozy bed
and forget this day ever happened; except for the part about Toy Land of course.

My face felt like lead as I lifted it. "Mommy. I wanna go home...I'm tired!"  I was waiting for my
Moms familiar voice to respond, when suddenly everything came to an abrupt halt, and I
plowed into her back side!

"Well, well...where did you come from?!", came a cheery reply from above. I looked up at the
person towering over me and found myself staring into the face of a total stranger! I had
grabbed the wrong red skirt! I had been following someone I thought was my mother all over
that large department store while my real mom was frantically searching for me. There I was
lost in a world of giants, until I was finally joyfully reunited with my real mother, and all the
world was right again.

In John Chapter 14, Philip, one of the twelve, made a request of Jesus. "Lord, show us
the Father... Jesus seemed surprised at his appeal. "Don't you know me Philip, even
after I have been among you such a long time?" On another occasion, Jesus made this
startling declaration. "Not everyone who calls me,'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of
heaven." (Matt. 7:21) He then went on to say that there would be "many"
who professed to know him and would even claim to have performed miracles in his name.
However, Jesus' response to their boast is most alarming! "then I will tell them plainly,
I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!" (vs. 23) Why would Jesus say such a
thing to people such as these?

There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death. (Proverbs 14: 12)

Countless numbers are going to miss heaven by 18 inches! This is the approximate distance
between the head and the heart. Jesus said that there are many who think that everything is
perfectly all right between them and God. They profess some kind of faith in God and even
claim to be Christians. They may lead fairly moral lives and regularly attend church. Yet they
remain deceived.

Like that little lost boy, they think they have a firm grip on God, but they don't. Rather, they
are holding tightly to something that seems right. They've accepted the historical Christ and
have made something of an intellectual ascent, but have never made a commitment to his
Lordship. They have a "death grip" on some mistaken concept of Christianity. But when
Jesus returns, they will find that they were wrong- dead wrong!

There were people like this in Jesus' day. The Scribes and the Pharisees were the religious
leaders. They knew more about the Bible and how to be religious than anyone. Others
looked to them for spiritual guidance. These people were certain that they knew God. Yet
when Emmanuel, (meaning "God with us"), was speaking to them face to face, they didn't
recognize him. "Who are you?" They asked. (John. 8:26) They had a firm death grip on their
own religious and philosophical worldview. Oh, they felt certain of their position. The only
problem was that they were clinging tightly to the wrong skirt.

Our western churches are much the same. They're full of people who think they have Jesus,
because they're clinging tightly to a certain concept of Christianity. All too often though, it's
a passed down religious point of view, rather than something they have come to know on a
personal basis. It's a way, which seems right, but what is the end of it? Do they truly know
Jesus, or are they merely religious? Do they really know what it means to be born again? If
not, one day this life will come to a screeching halt. They will stand before God, look up and
find themselves staring into the face of a stranger.

In John chapter 3, Jesus had an encounter with one of the most religious men of his day.
Nicodemus was a deeply devout Pharisee who enjoyed high standing in the community and
was even a member of the Jewish equivalent of our Supreme Court, the Sanheddrin. No one
was more religious than Nicodemus or loved and wanted to serve God more.

Yet Jesus looked him straight in the eye and said, "I tell you the truth, no one can see the
kingdom of God unless he is born again." (vs. 3) His point was this. "Nicodemus, it doesn't
matter how religious or how righteous you think that your belief system makes you. It's not
good enough. You MUST be born again!" In other words, "Nick ole buddy, you have a good
strong grip...on the wrong skirt, and you're being carried on a path that will ultimately lead to
death!"

You, or someone you know, may be very much like our friend Nicodemus. Someone who
considers himself to be a decent, moral sort. You may even know something about the
Bible. Chances are that you even go to church and give generously when the collection
plate passes by. You might actually teach Sunday School or even stand behind a pulpit, BUT
if you haven't made Jesus the Lord of your life, it means NOTHING!

Sadly, many are holding on with white knuckles to a deadly misconception. They continue to
be dragged through life thinking, or at best hoping, that everything is OK between them and
God. The grim reality, however, is that they are lost and very far from the truth.

Now, God wants to ask you a question. "Do you have a death grip? Are you clinging to the
wrong skirt?" Jesus said that there are "many" who are. Are you one of them?

1 John 5:13 says, "I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so
that you may KNOW that you have eternal life." Yes. You can know for sure that you have
eternal life.
Would you like to know for certain that
you're going to Heaven?
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All scripture references are from The New International Version of The Bible.