Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you. (1Peter 4:12)
Have you ever been in the midst of a raging storm in your life and asked THE question? You know— the “Why?” question. “God, why is this happening to me?” I freely admit that I have been guilty in times past, but then I discovered something that forever changed my prayer life. I suddenly realized one day that I was asking the wrong question! The question to life’s painful trials is not “Why?” but rather “What?” “Lord, what are you teaching me?” “What are you doing in my life?” “What are you wanting to show me that I need to see?”
We live by faith, not by sight. (2 Corinthians 5:7)
The “What?” kind of prayer leads to results. You see, the “Why?” question is often an expression of distrust. It says, “I don’t understand you! Therefore since you don’t fit into the perimeter of my understanding, I don’t trust you.” With few exceptions it’s human nature to not trust something or someone we don’t understand. But for the believer, we are called to walk beyond the human realm. We’re called to “live by faith, not by sight.”
You will get more out of a “What?” question than you will from a million “Why?” questions. Take Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego for example. The Bible says that they were bound hand and foot and then tossed into a furnace. But later when Nebuchadnezzar looked into the furnace he saw the three men walking around in the midst of the flames, free and accompanied by the Son of God. The only thing the fire burned was the very thing that had them bound!
God didn’t promise us answers…He promised us grace.
Are you in a fire right now? Are you in an intense storm? Rather than asking God “Why?” ask Him, “What?” “What are you trying to do in my life, Lord?” James 1:4 gives the final outcome of adversity “…so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” Just remember as you face life’s storms, to ask the right question. Only then will peace prevail in the midst of your storm.